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While being single, like many other girls, I had a whole list of things I wanted my future man to have and be. I hoped for a guy who was tall and charming, like one that jumped straight out of my favourite movie or drama; always envying the female lead for having a flawless guy sweep her of her feet. But unfortunately they never really worked out, despite their looks, most of them were over confident and obnoxious jerks who knew they had the looks. But being oblivious, I came across a situation where I never gave up on one of them. Moments passed, and chapters were closed with new ones opened.
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I appreciate it so much! It was about seven years ago that I became unexpectedly single due to a seemingly promising relationship gone horribly wrong.
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He and I had looked at rings. We had talked about the future. And in one night, it was crushed. He broke my heart. I wanted to be married.
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I wanted a family. But I was terrified of having to start all over again. I would like to share with you the same words that I offer those dear friends. I wish that I could tell you that it will happen soon.
That your fairytale ending is right around the corner. And there is so much hope and joy waiting for you — even today.
In the midst of my own heartache, I quickly learned that I needed to make the best of this time that I had. It was a time to make positive changes to my life in order to prepare my heart for my future husband, so that I would be the kind of person I wished to marry.
I have a friend who told me that she has been single for longer than she would like. She said that she knowingly has the impulsive tendency to fantasize about a new life as a girlfriend or wife, even before the check is paid on a first date. She becomes extremely excited about the future and the potential that her date has. After a few dates together, she has already created him to be the man who will eventually sweep her off of her feet, before she even truly knows who he is.
Beautiful girl — I want to admonish you to remain true to who you are no matter how difficult it may be. If God intends for you to marry, the man that He has for you is going to blow your mind. Your beautiful in all u share. I will be 70 next yr. I have been single 30 yrs. Now, im very lonely most of the time now that my little Abby dog passed.
My children live as though i m miles away. Hi Jeannetta. I am praying for you.
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I lost my grandma last year and I fear that she felt much like you just expressed back in November. I would give anything to go back in time. I would love to hear more of your story if you feel up to it. My name is Michele, and I am I am raising my niece who is My is mthomps gmail. Great read, and so very true.
I ended marrying someone else … a huge mistake. It lasted a year and it was over. There I was, divorced again. My Mr. We lived together for two years before getting pregnant with our second daughter.
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But, he did, when I was seven months pregnant. And I said yes. We got married a month later, on the beach where we shared our first kiss 8 years earlier. A month after that, we were blessed with out second daughter. They are now 7 and 21 months old and the light of our lives. I love doing life with my husband.
Your prince charming will be nothing like what you expect (and that’s a good thing)
I never knew I could feel so deeply for someone as I do him. I thank God every night he had the courage to ask me to be his wife.
I am truly lucky to have him. Thank you so much for reading, Jen. Hugs to you! Lindsey — thank you, thank you, thank you for writing this post!
I am so thankful that I stumbled upon it, because I think it is exactly what I needed to hear right now. I love this so much, thank you for writing it! Been struggling with loneliness a lot lately was almost in tears over it on the car ride to work this morning actuallyand this brought me so much hope and encouragement.
You have a beautiful heart! Hi Kassidy! Thank you so much for taking the time to comment.
But Jesus definitely gives SO much hope and I pray that He continues to fill your heart with joy in the midst of this season! You are so sweet! I hope this year is wonderful for you. But you are right, he is definitely worth the wait!
And he spoke to me directly through your words today with this beautifully written article. God sent you as my angel today. I love you! Lindsay — what a sweet and true post. I definitely could have used this advice through those years! I definitely wish I would have known this as well! I kinda knew it would happen, but I was in a rush to get on with my happily ever after.
It will be worth it! Thanks so much for sharing that! Wow what a beautiful post. My best friend just told me she was pregnant and I definitely felt a twinge of envy. I love how you say he is worth the wait because that is exactly what God told me about my husbanday.
Thank you for sharing! Awe — thank you so much for sharing that, Emily. I know how difficult that can be.
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Are you trying to get pregnant? I would love to hear more about your story. Fabulous post!
Loved reading about your journey…we often feel alone in the wait. So encouraging to see how God has come through for you, dreams really do come true! This seriously speaks to me so much. I was so incredibly guilty of this in college. I found myself being a chameleon, trying to make each guy I dated into the perfect fit. Amazing post my love!!! You have such a way with words xoxo. I definitely force fit so many people into my life and I lost myself along the way as well.
Thank you so much for taking the time to comment! Great piece! I was wed at 21 and was one of the first and I remember conversations with my girlfriends that sounded much like the ones you are referencing. Your advice is perfect!
And, it is so true. I absolutely LOVE this. I went through a similar phase and I took time off from dating to figure out myself for over a year. While we all want to be loved, it may not be everyones time.